I’ve been struggling with an idea for meaningful essay for about 5 days, hence no post last week. Now since I’m heading into a second week with no post, I decided to pass significance and go to “For pete’s sake, Chris, write something!” So with a promise to conquer my confusion over the essay I want to write later today.
Here are some informational updates.
I have now finished two rounds of chemotherapy – once a week for three weeks and an off week constitutes a cycle. After one more cycle – sometime in the week of April 10th, I’ll have another scan and we’ll be able to see if the chemo is having any effect. When I see my oncologist next week I’ll be asking how long we’ll have to wait for results. Instantly would be a perfect answer.
After the first scan, surgery quickly fell off the table as an option. Given the invasive nature of my cancer, removing the breast tumor became an unnecessary step.
Every day I continue to be flooded with cards, emails, and voice mail messages of good wishes and support. I can’t tell you how much they mean!
My daughter Miriam and I tripped over a wonderful resource during an internet search for cards appropriate for icky life situations. We found Emily Mc Dowell’s site www.EmilyMcDowell.com and discovered she collaborated with Kelsey Crowe, Ph.D. on a book, There Is No Good Card For This: What to Say and Do When Life is Scary, Awful, and Unfair to People You Love. IT IS A GREAT BOOK! One that you will be happy you read when you need it. (Of special interest is the brief section that discusses how bosses can effectively help an employee who’s dealing with illness or loss.) I highly recommend you add it to your library. I am in awe of the power of words in difficult times.