Category Archives: Changing Your Mind

Consider Creativity

When was the last time you thought of yourself as creative? Never? Don’t be too hard on yourself. Many people in our society have a mistaken view of creativity in general and are often quick to point out their own creative shortcomings. Listen to some of the most common misbeliefs about creativity.
• Only some people are creative, usually followed by, and I’m not one of them.
• There is a connection between creativity and artistic ability and I can’t carry a tune in a bushel basket or draw a straight line with a ruler.
• Ok, maybe I am creative sometimes, but not when I need it.

These beliefs about creative ability need to be corrected before each of us will be able to believe in our own creative gifts. The truth about creativity paints a much prettier picture. We all have enormous creative ability, most of which we haven’t really used since we were young children. There is no correlation between creative ability and artistic talent. In fact, there isn’t even a connection between anything beyond basic intelligence and creativity. Creativity is a skill, learn-able by anyone who’s interested in taking the journey.

Creativity is simply the ability to produce new, novel, and occasionally useful ideas. The creative individual is someone who looks at the same thing everyone else looks at, sees something different, explores the possibilities, and then does something with their aha. You can see yourself doing that, can’t you? So why aren’t we all more creative?

There are many barriers to creativity, some personal, some societal, all avoidable if you put your mind to it. Fear is a major barrier to creativity. Whether you fear breaking the rules, success, or other people’s opinions, those fears will keep you from trying. Creativity demands taking a chance. Think back to coloring as a child. Were you chastised for coloring outside the lines or were you supported when you made the sky orange and the grass blue?

Maybe it’s your environment that gets in the way of your creativity. Is your world too noisy, too sterile, or too disconnected from nature? Creative thought flourishes in special spaces filled with rich colors, smells, tastes, and soft sounds. Windows that look out to trees, oceans or mountains are wonderful, but if you don’t have a window, fill your walls with pictures of your favorite nature scenes.

Your creativity might be compromised by the culture around you. How do you and your organization feel about failure? Creativity requires that you try new things and doing something new demands that you get out of your comfort zone. Failure lurks outside your comfort zone. Success lies there also, but most of us focus on the failure and overlook the possibility of success. Creative people make getting out of their comfort zone normal behavior.

Discovering which barriers are holding you back and making some changes might just help you gain confidence in your creative thinking. Once you’ve got the confidence, there’s no end to the creativity you can share with the world.

Performance Review Myths

Continuing to answer the excellent questions submitted by the participants in my session Managing Resistance to Change at the ASAE Great Ideas Conference. These Association leaders really know how to get to the heart of an issue with a question!


 If you are not a part of the Association Management world, substitute employees for the word member. You're facing these issues, too and the answers will apply.


Be sure to use the comments section to continue the dialogue.


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But It’s Not the Truth!

What’s a person to do? Someone you love forwards an email. You read it with growing doubt that it’s actually true. So you create a subject, enter it in Google, and start reading the resulting search links. You were right – it wasn’t true, or maybe it was half true, or maybe it was true but really slanted to prove a point of view. Remember, it was sent by someone you love, who wants to believe it is true because that fits into their particular world view.

What would you do?

Changing people’s minds is one of the toughest tasks I can think of. Changing the mind of a people you love is fraught with big-time dangers. All the links to Urban Legends, Snopes, Scambuster you can send won’t do it if someone’s mind is made up. Those sources will just become suspect and part of the bigger conspiracy and you’ll be the one who sent it!

Which brings us to the worst part of the Internet. Pick a position, any position. Look for it on the world wide web. I’m betting you’ll find a source that agrees with you. See, you were right. If you went to the library (remember those?) you might have a tougher time finding some data to back up your pet theory  – or that is, the pet theory forwarded to you by an acquaintance, a friend or a relative. You see those sources: books, magazines, and newspapers – went through an editorial process. Facts were checked, quotes confirmed, and references verified. Things on the Internet simply went through the fingers of someone versed in HTML.Typing_keyboard

So, there you are, reading that forward from that person you love a lot, and it’s not exactly true. I ask again, what would you do? Please respond, I’ve got this email in my in box…